I rarely write anymore about “women in tech” types of things, but one of my colleagues mentioned an initiative for #SheCoded, and I really loved the coding journeys and stories. So I decided to participate, too.
Something that comes to mind when I think about why these stories are important might be less relevant today in my circles. But maybe it’s still something that affects people in smaller or more sheltered communities. I recognize that I was very lucky to go away to school and to be in a place where I had the freedom to take random classes that sounded interesting to me, but even so I might still have missed my path.
When I got to college and took an actual C programming course for the first time (not just messing around on the command line or building HyperCard stacks), an explosion went off in my head. All I wanted to do was be in that computer lab & learn more. Suddenly I felt maybe everyone telling me all my life I wasn’t creative was wrong! Here I could be creative and make things I cared about. I never left the computer lab without having done something new. It was the greatest environment I never knew.
But when I tried to think about how to do this for the rest of my life, I was stumped. My parents didn’t use computers for work. I didn’t know anything about software jobs. What could I actually do with this? Luckily I had taken a part-time job in the university’s career center where I had time to read up on the different paths for someone who studied computer science. I was convinced that this, not the business school (where I had already declared my major of international business), was where my future was.
Calling my parents to tell them that I was going to switch majors after only a few weeks of college was a surprise for both me and them. They panicked because they, like me, didn’t know the first thing about these types of careers. They thought it was a fad and who would take me seriously anyway. You love math! We all know you should be an accountant! Please don’t drop out of the business school and end up moving back home when you can’t get a job!
I figured out a way to do both and graduated in five years with both computer science and international business degrees. Along the way, I got programming internships and part-time jobs, and each time my parents shrugged and told me best of luck. When I graduated and moved from Missouri to Seattle to start my new job at Microsoft, I think it finally sunk in that this wasn’t going to be a fad.
Like I said above, I think this is less of a barrier for young people today. I doubt students are being talked out of careers in computer science because their family still thinks it’s a fad or not a safe job market. But here in Ireland I have met students with high standardized test scores whose parents convince them to go to med school, not engineering school, because it’s a “better future.” So I think it is very important to be able to explore career paths, understand options, and read stories about how people got to where they are today.
Thank you everyone else who participated and shared your stories – you may be helping to change someone’s future.












